The Real Narcissists
The Narcissist grows cold after his collapse. He loses hope in any chance that he had of stitching up his life and with the loss of that hope he is forced to look at the situation for what it is.
All of those things that you mentioned that you had no intention of following through with, he now focuses on those things with an intensity unlike anything before.
It borders rage
It borders hate
It borders the line between reason and the surreal
The narcissist cannot be reasoned with anymore because of the lies he was exposed to. He cannot trust you anymore because of your perpetual gaslighting. Every time you baited him in to thinking he was accepted only to turn it around and make him feel foolish and rejected with your taunting, has turned him into ice.
You obviously wanted a real monster to deal with. You wanted something exciting because it was so easy to play with these narcissists and break them like they were nothing.
The narcissist knows a secret that he will not tell.
He knows that there is something coming which he won’t protect you from.
You owe it to yourselves
You wanted to create an enemy out of an ally well, your price is coming for that. You should have thought harder about your decisions but, some people are just so arrogant, so entitled, and so selfish that they can’t even see where they are exposed.
The real trick of the narcissist is revealing who the real narcissists are.